Getting on better with your brother or sister
Although disputes are short-lived and things usually improve with time, the relationship with your brother or sister can sometimes be a real challenge! Here are some ideas to build the best possible relationship.
To remember
👉 With a brother or sister, you learn to live with differences in age and character. This trains you to better manage relationships in life.
👉 Talk about your feelings, find solutions together, and don't hesitate to ask your parents for help.
How to have a better relationship with my brother or sister?
Express what you feel to your brother or sister. You can also talk about it to a close friend; they might have good advice.
Look for solutions with them that are satisfactory for both of you.
Talk to your parents about it, as they can help you find solutions and act as mediators.
When the other person provokes you, try to ignore them and walk away.
If you're angry, clear your head by going for a walk, seeing friends, or doing any other activity that makes you feel good.
If your brother or sister is younger than you:
Praise and encourage them.
Don't give them orders, but make requests politely.
Spend time with them: they think you're cool!
Do things they like.
Let them make mistakes and learn.
If your brother or sister is older than you:
Respect their privacy and peace.
When you want something, ask kindly, avoiding repetition.
Tell them you're happy when they help you or spend time with you.
