Gender identity

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What does gender identity mean? This article shares some definitions that may be useful when learning more about the subject.

To remember

👉 Gender identity is a person's deeply felt internal sense of their gender, regardless of their sex assigned at birth.

👉 Biological sex is assigned at birth based on physical characteristics.

👉 Gender expression is the way one expresses their gender through their appearance and behavior.

 

 

 

Gender identity is a person’s internal feeling of being a man, a woman, both, neither, or something else (Interligne, 2021). Your gender identity may or may not be different from your biological sex and your gender expression.

 

Because it’s a matter of how you, personally, feel inside, and nobody can question that. 

The identities listed here are far from the only ones out there. With so many terms, it can be hard to find one that fits you, and that can raise a lot of questions. Feel free to reach out to us if you’re wondering about something or want to learn more. 

 

Sources : Conseil québécois LGBT; ​Dubuc, D; Interligne

Biological sex, what is it?

Biological sex is what determines a person’s biological characteristics (like hairiness, body shape, hormones, and genitals). Some people have sexual characteristics of both sexes, too, which is called being intersex. Your sex is assigned at birth, meaning that it’s determined when a healthcare professional looks at your genitals when you’re born.

 

It’s important to know that your sex can be different from your gender (for example, you’re assigned female at birth, but you identify as male), and your gender expression can be different from both.  

What about gender expression?

‘Gender expression’ describes the codes (like clothes, hairstyles, use of makeup, body language, and more) our society uses to signal a person’s gender. You can express your gender by following society’s masculine or feminine codes, but you can also break the mould by presenting however you want.

 

Important: your gender expression doesn’t necessarily reflect your gender identity or sexual orientation! A guy can feel like a guy even if he does ‘feminine’ things (like wearing nail polish) just because he feels like it. That’s why it’s so important to avoid assuming people’s gender or orientation because of their appearance. 

Gender identity is fluid

Did you know that your gender identity or gender expression can change over time? Like other aspects of your identity, they can change as you move through life. Or they might remain consistent: who knows? 

 

It’s human to have questions, not know how you identify, or refuse to label yourself.

 

Identity and labels 

Labels can be helpful for putting your identity into words, but you are definitely not required to pick one. It’s totally human to have questions and be unsure.

 

  

There are several other ways to define oneself than these. Amidst all the different terms, it can be difficult to navigate and may raise many questions. If you have any questions or wish to learn more about the subject, do not hesitate to contact us.